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PhoenixF1re   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to busterljp...   

Love it...so true....

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PhoenixF1re   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to busterljp...   

Buster, you rock baby. Thank you for giving me the kick in the "ya know". I just want everything to be ok with you as well and anytime you need someone to talk to I'm here, ok. Things frustrate us on a constant and we always take it out on everyone else. I am definitely taking your words to heart because I know they are to motivate and encourage me. I am forever indebted to you.

How are things going? Talk to you soon.

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PhoenixF1re   in reply to PhoenixF1re   on

About PhoenixF1re

 in response to kcscha...   

I know babygirl. Here in NY we are up to 4.99 a gallon. Makes me sick. Thanks to the government we have in power. I hope everyone gets out and votes so we can have serious changes.

We are ok. Just doing things here and there to get my rent money together. I'll stall the other guys.. I hope he finds something soon too honey. What does he do. I can look into stuff for him, let me know.

 

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PhoenixF1re   in reply to kcscha   on

DEAR LORD

This is beautiful sweetheart. Though I am not Christian, with utmost respect and love, I admire your love and belief in your faith. Your children are blessed to have a wonderful mommy as you.

How are things honey?

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PhoenixF1re   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

Hey guys, I'm here for a few if you need anything. I was so tired yesterday I collapsed. I think all the emotion and grind caught up. But I'm up and at em' and here for you. Lay it on me.

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PhoenixF1re   in reply to Sandav1   on

About $99,000. PURSES on Ebay!

Ahhh. so be the luxury of the American that we have a society where things like this take presidence over more important matters. The fact that we are afforded this luxury, when in other countries that amount of money would feed a town for 3 months. Sick isn't it. As parents we don't make it better by spoiling our children. Don't get me wrong as a mother I understand the concept, but my son doesn't get what he wants like that. He has to save and earn it, like I do.

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PhoenixF1re   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to B4013...   

Good Luck sweetheart. I'm sending blessings your way. The job market is horrible everywhere.

Let me know if you need me to look into anything for you

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PhoenixF1re   in reply to PhoenixF1re   on

Job Blog: All you need to know...

 in response to Brighan...   

Hey you,

I'm pretty good. Of course if there is anything further you need revised we can work together. Let me know. I can send you a sample of mine.

 

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PhoenixF1re   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to B4013...   

EVICTED..not convicted...

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PhoenixF1re   in reply to blitzen   on

About blitzen

Blitzen,

Take one thing at a time honey. Concentrate right now on where you and your kids are going to rest your heads. You can't go into business or even think about it right now. That will come, trust me sweetheart.

If you have documented incidences of domestic violence, like police reports, hospital, children services interventions, the state should give your case priority. I know here in NY, Domestic violence survivors are the only ones to receive section 8 vouchers.

What county in Florida are you in, so I can direct you to a local office that can help with your housing situation. In the meantime Look into this:

http://www.fcadv.org/centers.php << Domestic Violence Centers listed by county

Good luck honey and I wish you the very best. let me know if you need anything else.

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PhoenixF1re   in reply to KeeKee1976   on

About KeeKee1976

Hi KeeKee:

Contact your local Legal Aid Society, so they can help you look over the paperwork that was given to you. Eviction is not an easy process and it is very detailed. The landlord has to do everything per the law or risk getting his case thrown out.

Here's the link for your local office serving Halifax county. Contact them ASAP.

http://www.legalaidnc.org/client/faq.aspx 

Also here are some things for you to know, that can also be found on the website:

My landlord is taking me to court for non-payment of rent. What do I do?

If the only reason for your eviction is for non-payment of rent, you can avoid the eviction. At the hearing, before judgment is entered, tell the magistrate that you have the amount of money owed plus the court costs. The magistrate must dismiss the landlord's complaint.

 

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PhoenixF1re   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to B4013...   

That you are able, willing and ready to work EVERYDAY. That you are actively looking and registered with a certain amount of agencies that can assist you in finding employment in order to continue receiving unemployment benefits in the state of NY.

I hope I clarified

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PhoenixF1re   in reply to PhoenixF1re   on

About PhoenixF1re

 in response to Anonymous40784...   

Thank you honey. I appreciate all your encouragement and guidance throughout this.

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PhoenixF1re   in reply to tstancer   on

About tstancer

Unfortunately there is no funding available for headstones (unless it's military and that's automatic).

That is considered a luxury "sad", but true. The best bet is for everyone to chip in and pay little by little. Open up a bank account specifically for that. See if the actual monument maker can work out a payment plan that can be paid for over time.

Take a look at these:

http://www.affordable-markers.com/index.html

I am so sorry for your difficult time. It's horrible that even in death we end up paying so much to pay tribute to the ones we love in life. Just be strong for him and his family. You sound like you are doing a great job. Head up!!

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PhoenixF1re   in reply to PhoenixF1re   on

About PhoenixF1re

 in response to kcscha...   

Thank you sweetheart. How's everything? How are the kids doing. I hope everything gets better for you. If there is anything I can look into for you, please let me know.

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PhoenixF1re   in reply to shaniya   on

About shaniya

Of course you're going to get the third degree because of your situation. You're living with your mother in law and you're bringing kids into this world when you can even afford a roof over your head. The advice you are going to get here is to get your priorities straight. I said this so many times if you have the energy to make a kid then you have energy to do what you gotta do to make your life better.

Financially you and your man have to help yourselves. He can get a security job, wash a car, clean. Tell him to look here:

http://statesville.jobs.topusajobs.com/

Same goes for you. Make sure you have applied to all the benefits that you are entitled for. Here are the links:

http://www.co.iredell.nc.us/Departments/DSS/dss.asp << All County Agency listings

JOBS

Iredell County JobLink Center Employment Security Commission

1907 Newton Drive

Statesville, NC 28677

Phone: 704-878-4241

HOUSING / Shelter /Childcare / Food

I Care, Inc.

PO Box 349

Statesville, NC  28677

Phone:  704-872-8141

Iredell County DSS

PO Box 1146

Statesville, NC 28677

Phone: 704-873-5631

 

Crisis Intervention

906 Fifth Street

Statesville, NC 28677

Phone: 704-872-4045

Salvation Army

PO Box 91

Statesville, NC 28677

Phone: 704-872-5623 

Soup Kitchen

PO Box 467

Statesville, NC 28677

Phone: 704-873-7244

It's up to you now, good luck and if you need more resources, let me know.

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PhoenixF1re   in reply to ariii_xo_babii   on

PLEASE!! i really need your help

Hi Arii,

How much do you owe? Unfortunately with private university loans, the laws that apply to the other loans are not valid. You can ask the lender for a relief so long as you provide documentation. But if you noticed the economy has even cracked these guys down too, so the crunch will be harder on you.

Take a look at the info on these links and see if they help. They are articles about private loans.

http://www.studentloanborrowerassistance.org/loan-cancellation/disability-and-death

http://www.studentloanborrowerassistance.org/uploads/File/Report_PrivateLoans.pdf

 

 

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PhoenixF1re  

Job Blog: All you need to know...

A little something I read before I left for my interview today. I will post more articles here on job hunting, resume prep and anything that can contribute to your success. Please feel free to add anything here that can help others in their job search. Thanks 

P.S. If you need help with a resume, please let me know. I'll be happy to help.

Preparation is key to a successful interview

Does the idea of going to a job interview make you feel a little queasy? Many people find that it is the hardest part of the hiring process. But it doesn’t have to be. The more you prepare and practice, the more comfortable you will feel.  Increase your odds of landing the job you want by brushing up on your interview skills.

Prepare before you go. 
Find out all you can about the company before you go to the interview. Understand the products that they produce and/or the services that they provide. It’s also good to know who the customers are and who the major competitors are.

Practice makes perfect. 
It will also make you feel more confident and relaxed. So, practice your answers to common questions. Make a list of questions to ask, too. Almost all interviewers will ask if you have questions. This is a great opportunity for you to show that you have done your homework and have put some thought into your questions

Make a great impression.
The interview is your chance to show that you are the best person for the job. Your application or resume has already exhibited that you are qualified. Now it ’s up to you to show how your skills and experience match this position and this company. 

The employer will be looking and listening to determine if you are a good fit. He/she will be looking for a number of different qualities, in addition to the skills that you possess. To make the best impression, dress appropriately; sell your strengths; arrive early, by about 10-15 minutes; be enthusiastic; shake hands firmly; be an active listener; sit up straight and maintain eye contact; ask questions.

Say "thank you".
After the interview, follow up with a thank-you note. This is a chance for you to restate your interest and how you can benefit the company. Your best bet is to try to time it so that the note gets there before the hiring decision is made. You should also follow up with a phone call if you don’t hear back from the employer within the specified time. Check out some samples:

Sample One (PDF file)

Sample Two (PDF file)

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PhoenixF1re   in reply to PhoenixF1re   on

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 in response to Elaine of TSA...   

Thank you Elaine. I take that as a complement as you yourself have blessed this community with your insight, resources and most importantly the gift of your faith. I am thankful that I came across this site and I plan to stick around to help in anyway I can.

Thanks again

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PhoenixF1re   in reply to PhoenixF1re   on

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 in response to Justamutt...   

Thanks honey. I got the job...woo-hoo!!!!

I love to help when I can. If I were blessed like a Trump, no one on here would have problems, trust me. I have struggled in life and when things got better, something else would get thrown right back at me. Just got to suck it up I guess.

But hard knocks taught me that you can't be angry or take it out on others. You are not going to get hand-outs and fairy tales don't always have happy endings. That's life unfortunately.

But I will always be here and if I can help anyone in a right path, that's what I need to do. Give hugs to the kids. Thanks a lot mate!!!

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